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The Villain, the Victim, and the Story
Nov 23, 2025
Do you know anyone who's telling a grievance story? Chances are, you do. And the story they tell has a clear victim (that's THEM) and a one-dimensional villain - someone who hurt them, ignored them, passed them over, mistreated them, betrayed them, or took something from them they could NEVER give back. And this grievance story is told OVER and OVER again - to anyone who will listen. And you know something? They're RIGHT. They WERE hurt. What was done to them WAS wrong - but telling that story over and over again isn't helping them. Why? In this message, Max Vanderpool unpacks an important part of the process of forgiveness - learning to tell a BETTER story.
